Your day can only ever be as good as you let it be.

It's a good thing browser tabs came after high speed internet connections. Waiting for one website to load in dialup speed was sufficient.

I don't subscribe to the notion of "givers and takers" in the sense that I think every person goes through phases of each throughout their lives. I don't think a person is just one or the other all the time, or in all situations. I've been thinking about this because I've noticed two different ways people can choose to respond to people's bids for attention when they're not very interested in the topic that's been brought up. The first way is to respond "I've never heard of that, tell me more about it." The second way is "I've never heard of it." One opens the door to connection and conversation and learning and growth, and the other gives more of a "buzz off, I'm not interested in this or you" vibe. Not everybody is in the mood to engage with every bid for attention that gets directed their way, and that's normal and not a problem. But if you find yourself responding consistently in that way, know that a message is being received that you may or may not intend.

The world is full of incredible things. You'll encounter them and be enchanted by them. You will forget some of them. That's the beauty and the tragedy of existence.

There's a non-uncommon phenomenon in which people stay up very late at night in order to reclaim some of the free time they don't have during the day because they have to work. I don't do this because I've reached a point in my life where physical fatigue overtakes me relatively early in the evening and when I'm done, I'm just done. But I do find myself waking up really early and doing more or less the same thing. Lying in the bed at 3:00 AM telling myself to go back to sleep has never worked, so instead I get up and start my day. Sometimes I wind back down and manage to get another hour of sleep before my alarm goes off, and sometimes I'm just up for the day. But the reclamation of personal time- I get it.

I like quiet places on the Internet. Places where you can look at one thing at a time, with no advertising. Everything is so full, and it doesn't have to be.

Consider: When you feel as though you're "walking on eggshells" around a person, do you mean you're worried they're going to yell at you if you upset them, or do you mean you don't know how not to insist on being the center of their attention at all times?